Saturday, 13 March 2021

This Holi …Let’s gift someone you love…



          

                This Holi …Let’s gift someone you love

“We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give.” ―Winston S. Churchill

Dear readers – This write up is also very special to me and straight from heart. I personally do not believe celebrating special days, rather I celebrate every day of my life and try to make it special in my own ways. For me celebrating occasions or gifting people is not any formality but an emotion. An emotion of love, compassion, and care.

Why should we gift?

“Since you get more joy out of giving joy to others, you should put a good deal of thought into the happiness that you are able to give.” ―Eleanor Roosevelt

Any gift I choose, has some thoughts behind it, you all must have read many articles or blogs which would suggest what we can gift our friends, family, or colleagues. However, I want to emphasize today on the rationale behind gifting someone, something special. By giving people gifts, you're not only making yourself out to be a generous person; but you're making the recipient of your gift a grateful person. ... Even strangers are affected when they receive generosity and warmth from others – it makes them feel happy, loved, and valued. While the world is moving towards technology, we shall try to choose gifts which are in our budget, economical and apart from mobiles, tablets, and any expensive electronic gadgets.

What to Choose?

" It's not how much we give, but how much love we put into giving." — Mother Teresa.

No matter if the gift is small or big, A present given with happiness and with your loving heart is always best. Of course, what you gift will be inspired by the occasion and your relationship to whom you are gifting but the intention of gifts is always to express love and to make someone feel special & rewarded.

Some of the factors which would help you in choosing what to gift are: -

Useful and with a purpose: We need to understand difference between a need and a desire, while we can always gift people according to their wish list, we should always think how useful that gift could be or the purpose which they would solve. For example, age appropriate gift boxes, books, games, toys for children or good apparels, watches or cosmetics etc. for grownups.

Environment Friendly: Since, these days we all very particular about going for local organic products, berrytree offers variety of organic stylish apparels. Extremely skin-friendly, comfortable, and appealing.  Organic cotton is grown without harmful chemicals, leaving the soil, air, and water free from contaminates that cause harm. So obviously, organic cotton that uses a smaller amount of chemicals is better for your skin and for your health. In fact, organic cotton is so safe, it's one of the best materials for your skin.

Gifts with personalized/customized messages:

A thoughtful gift can have the same effect of a thousand beautifully crafted words. It can show the person you’re giving a gift to that you treasure and value the relationship that you both share – be it a romantic or platonic one. In addition, customized handmade craft gifts – such as wall hangings, photo books, framed prints etc. are a great way to showcase the best moments in your relationship and to foster a stronger emotional bond with your giftee. Recently, I gifted these amazing wall hangings from Kaira creations and my children were overjoyed looking at those and every day feels happy to see their names beautifully carved.

 Gift of experience:

A trip to the amusement or indoor trampoline park, an impromptu vacation or even a simple picnic in a scenic meadow can make for an incredible gift. Not only are you spending quality time with your loved ones, but you’re also helping them to make memories that they will cherish for a lifetime. I recently visited Let’s play indoor trampoline park in Mumbai and was amazed with the focus on quality and safety. Let’s Play provides a great combination of Fun and Fitness. For all ages, it will be a rollicking day of thrills and adventure. Imagine having wings jumping off the walls, flying and having fun with family and friends in a playground of world-class trampolines! For sure you would feel as if you have some superpowers and have become an Avenger yourself 😊

Last but not the least, leaving you all with some thoughts to ponder upon, it’s not always about materialistic things, we can always gift things in our capacity and do not wait for any occasions.

Give the Gift of Kindness, love, and compassion. Give the gift of your full attention to others around you and allow them the importance they deserve. Give the gift of your time, your compliments, your affection. Trust me these are the most precious resources we possess and can share with others.




Sunday, 6 December 2020

Grandma, thank you for your infinite love and wisdom. . RIP Dadi Sb.



Dear Readers, Thanks for your overwhelming love for my features and write ups. Today I present to you celebration of life, after one is gone physically. I believe in celebrating the fortune of having them in our lives and to learn from them in which ever way. This post is very special and close to my heart as this is my tribute to my beloved grandmother who left for heavnly abode a week ago.. giving learnings & blessings for a lifetime.

A famous poem by Sarah Harrison...

The years will always roll on by
and time will always pass,
but every memory I have of you
will definitely always last.

I like to smile when I think of you.
I try not to be sad.
It's pretty easy to do
with all the good times that we've had.

But sometimes I can't help it,
and memories leak out of my eyes,
and I quickly try to brush them away.
I know you wouldn't want me to cry.

I don't know how it's possible,
but I love you more now than I did then,
and I really cannot wait until
the day that I see you again.

Because, Dadi, I know I would take hold of you
and never ever let you go.
Every day that passes by
I miss you more and more.


We also celebrated her life via virtual prayer meet and from her to peers to her great grand son from across the world paid her sincere tribute and contrubuted in the event.











Sunday, 8 November 2020

Love & Happiness is the only Destination....

 

 

"Don't share quotes of famous people, make your life an inspirational story for people to share"     

-Sandhya S Pillai

Sandhya has lived by this statement every minute and strives to achieve excellence in each step.

Dear readers – Today the happiness blog proudly brings to you an amazingly happy and inspiring women leader who is also a passionate leadership Communication Coach and Personal Effectiveness Trainer Sandhya S Pillai.

She is the first entrepreneur in her family & belongs to a family of educators. Her mother is into teaching for more than two decades, her elder sister has been heading educational institutes, and her maternal uncle was a lecturer. Her father was also a staunch believer of the fact that ‘Only proper education could give you respect and fame’.

A Post Graduate Diploma in Management with specialization in Marketing made her start her career in varied verticals like Advertising, Market Research, Business Development and Client Servicing.

But she was meant to do something different; fearless to experiment and strongly focused to bring in the change, she joined some big global brands initially and was lauded and appreciated for her extraordinary customer service, patience, confidence, rapport building and impactful communication.

However, post her motherhood she decided to begin with her own business and creating a new legacy for her child and next generations to come in pioneering the art of effective communication.

Sandhya has mentored many women professionals; she has coached them personally to work on the passion and create a powerful image of theirs. She is also the Founder of the online group- Teachers –Building Blocks of Nation which connects teachers and educators to create awareness and importance of Life Skills Training for them. She is an active member of groups like Personal Branding for Women on LinkedIn to learn & share innovative ideas for women entrepreneurs to establish their Personal Image. She has recently been associated with NGO’s like Win green, Buzz aria and PathShala for varied training initiatives for illiterate and semi-literate women.

She has been training trainers with techniques of connecting to the audience for positive learning and infuses positivity, hope and direction in them with her undying spirit of achieving Personal Excellence. She gifts her trainers with the confidence to speak, initiate conversations, negotiate well and deliver presentations with impact.

She has been advocating the philosophy of creating ‘ME’ time for women in many forums, blogs and write ups. She strongly believes that an individual who loves oneself and understands self-worth can be the torch bearer of love, positivity and happiness.

She has authored many articles on how to create ‘ME ‘time for self, how to create that personal brand and personal effectiveness.

Besides being an NLP Practitioner, Certified Soft Skills Trainer, Accent Trainer, TESOL Certified Trainer, Personal Communication Coach, A Motivational Leader, and Lead Teachers’ Trainer; Sandhya is passionate about food and travel, photography and fashion. She is an avid reader and thoughtful writer cum blogger.

Her vibrant & colorful personality, her never give up spirit and positive aura has been an inspiration for many professionals.

Solopreneur ship and motherhood keeps her busy most of the times. She loves to experiment with spices and weave into relatable conversations free flowing without inhibitions and barriers.
Passionate about singing and hosting people. Love and Happiness is the only destination for her!

Her vision to transform the way women lead their lives by empowering them, educating them and providing them the emotional support is commendable.

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Monday, 26 October 2020

A mother is always the beginning... She is how things begin.........


Today is my mother's birthday and what better day I can choose to express my feelings for her and let her know that how blessed I feel to have her in my life.. Truly she is how things begin for me. 

Right from my toddler’s day till today I look up to her for everything. Her perseverance, proactiveness and love for life has never failed to amaze me. I never recall missing any day of my school, or defaulting on any project or homework completion, she took our best care with utmost dedication. 

Be it extremely low temperatures during winters or extreme heat in summers, our lives sailed smoothly because of her...

Beginning of next phase in life... 

My best memories with her is during my class 12 board exams. Dad was posted to Kashmir, and Jiji was married then. It was only me and her. My one of the most cherished times in lifetime. I vividly remember those 5-6 months and enjoying time with her. She used to do household chores and I used to prepare for my boards and competitive exams. We used to go for evening walks. I used to drive my gearless "scooty" and take her for shopping and watch movies together. One of the most memorable times of my life.

Soon after, I started with my engineering course and went to hostel and she joined dad in Kashmir.

Beginning of Desolation & Hardships... 

Early hostel life was not an easy one. First time away from home and family, Noone known, strangers all around. Since, mom and dad were in Kashmir, the only way to communicate was letters. Suddenly the world seemed changed, hard and tough. However, slowly and gradually I settled and came out victorious fighting all possible odds all this because of the strength and skills I had learnt all through my childhood. 

Beginning of Self-Confidence & Co-Incidence .. :)

My most priced possession till date is my GOLD medal which has my name carved on it. Since, I had joined Accenture Bangalore, Mom and dad went to collect it on my behalf. What a day it was? 4 years of my sheer hard work and my parents sacrifices, all seemed worth it!

Co-incidentally, ma also had won Gold medal in her college times. Perhaps, winning and staying focused is our genetic trait :) 

Beginning of Dream Realization...

I shot for my first ever TV show "The Tara Sharma Show' in August 2018. Post that ma came to visit me in Mumbai and surprisingly Tara called me to shoot for another episode and gracefully invited ma too for the shoot. Again, ma was an integral part of my most cherished memory.

In fact, my story got published in an E-Book and I won accolades took inferences from my childhood and her influences.

https://storymirror.com/read/story/english/ru3a0ft9/super-60

 



There is a famous chinese proverb..

“There is only one pretty child in the world, and every mother has it.”

 Perhaps, my mother has two :)

Wishing mom a very happy birthday and let her know that she is biggest blessing of our lives, today and forever, Love her always !!




Friday, 23 October 2020

New Begining

Dear Readers - Thanks for all your love, I plan to start my own blog and would love to hear from you on the topics you would like me to write.

Below are links of some of my writings on various other platforms and some media coverages.


1) Author at mommy’s magazine, have pen down may interesting articles on parenting & children activities

https://www.mommysmagazine.com/author/abhrekha-jain-sahlot/

2) Facebook Pages

https://www.facebook.com/notes/accenture-in-india/beyondtheworkdesk-with-abhrekha-the-computer-wiz/10155173634563312

3) Magazine Coverages 

http://womanatwork.in/edition/September2016/mobile/#p=35

https://issuu.com/storizen/docs/storizen-magazine-august-2018-issue/42

4) Famous Web portals 

      http://famousparenting.com/conversation-ms-abhirekha-jain/

       https://firstmomsclub.in/helping-other-women-makes-me-happy-and-content-abhrekha-jain-sahlot/

     https://www.scoopearth.com/meet-abhrekha-jain-young-vibrant-woman-talk-women- empowerment-parenting-contribution-towards-society/

 5) TV shows & Web Shows LIVE hosting

You can also watch me on TV or U tube ( I was featured in Tara Sharma Show on Star World on 28th August):-








6) International Podcast

https://www.discoveryourtalentpodcast.com/podcast/abhrekha-jain/ 


Thanks and Regards,                              

Abhrekha Jain



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